Translated by Asa
20091016






In life there are emotions and passions
so of course there is anger.
There is a tendency for women to be emotional
but for men, at some time they break and get angry.

Basically, anger happens when things about ourselves are denied.
However, it doesn't end there.
Isn't it surprising when a man gets really mad?

What are you so mad about?, you wonder.
or even, Is this a breakup? What do you want? or even
I don't want to be together with you!...

Maybe you wonder if they want to break up over this thing..

Things like, "I can't believe this" are said and we act differently.

These things are thought of at first.

Men don't want to show their weak side
so they show their anger.
Anger equals strength, in their mind.

Also, they have concern about abandonment and getting hurt.
or if there is a fear of being controlled, they seem to
break into a violent anger.

In reality, this isn't all there is.

There is an origin to this in their past.
For instance in their childhood, in psychology it's referred to
as Adult Children. Why do they get violently angry?

It's necessary to look on them with a big heart.

Every time my feelings about this are written.
To have a fulfillment of love, as thought it's
about women bonding well and matching yourself to him.

On this the differences of thought between men and women come up.
I think this is true for women who work hard to be complimentary and matching to their man.

I know this in my head but when I'm busy and ask him for something,
I look at it from above and give advice but still I pout about it.

So in this thought, I end up hoping
to get a man to go along on just one thing


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